Why We Shout During an Argument ? Is it correct?

See, when we argue with someone we think less about what we have to make them understand , instead we focus on proving ourselves that we are right and human phycology says when we need to prove ourselves we raise our voice to show that we are dominant.

In some cases it to right to shout but we can argue or put our point without shouting too, so it is not necessary.

In just about any argument, from toddlers to pregnant women, shouting is a common denominator. Sometimes, it's the only way to break out of a conversation when one side just won't listen. In arguments with family members or roommates, shouting can escalate already tense situations and make them even more emotional. But in arguments among friends who know each other well enough not to be offended by the volume of their voices—in these cases it can be a helpful tool in reaching a compromise or understanding one another better.

Understanding Who You Are by. Understanding Who You Want to Be." "Sometimes people shout because they are so passionate about something they feel deeply about, but sometimes they shout because they need more attention—particularly if their history has been one where they felt unheard or unduly ignored."

Screeching siblings fighting over the last piece of chocolate cake? Maybe. But fighting with your partner because you've been working late every night this week and he or she feels neglected? Definitely.

Now, when it comes to the intensity of your emotions in an argument, shouting probably won't help you resolve the problem. Which doesn't mean that shouting is never a good idea or that just arguing softly can get you what you need—it just means that sometimes, all you need is to be heard. "It says, 'I'm here! This is my space! I am important.' It really does help get across some vital message."

But how do you know when shouting is appropriate?
Well, shout only when the emotional situation calls for it. When you feel overwhelmed or stuck in an argument, Hanks suggests saying things out loud to yourself that will help you regain your composure. You can also tell yourself that the other person is doing what they think they need to do in order to get what they want—this will help calm you down.